Love Rules..

Friends.. 10 points to remember if you want a successful relationship..

1) Search.. but don't hunt..

Let the deserved person enter in your life by own.
You will get your right life partner only at the right time, don't hesitate.

They are your genes who attract others.. not your face..
Or else hunt down people only to find they are not for you and get hurt.
Choice is yours..

2) First impression can be the last..

Well this line is not just a line.

It depends on your first glimpse about how your special one captures you in his / her image.
If you are bad in your first presentation, then way will be hard ahead.

3) Proceed, but step by step..

Don't be a rabbit in the matter of relationship.
It will show a purposeful approach towards them.
Start from Hi and Hello.. be formal.
Make light conversations.
You can't be their fiance if you can't be their friend.
So try to be a best buddy.
And ha.. also never be a fool like snail.
Step by step you should proceed.
Don't stay on messaging, make phone calls..
Don't be satisfied by calls, make dates.. and so on..

4) Stay connected or get lost..

Yes.. Human brain act like this way.
If a person is always with you, then you are more likely to fall in love.
On other hand your old lover too will get apart from your feelings if he / she is hardly in your range.

5) Expect less, Effort more..

Don't expect that person to miss you or behave like your way.
Everyone has their unique minds and attitudes.
But instead you do such things which will make them miss you when you are gonna stop doing them.
For e.g. call or message her / him regularly without expecting their timely replies.
The best is if you do on particular hours, like at morn, noon, dusk and night.

6) Have less but show more..

Yeah buddy, this is how the world goes today.
Your love will be underestimated if you don't express it.
No matter if you love by heart or not as nobody can dive in your heart to see that.. but show off your best.
For e.g. It's better if you end your conversation by "chal then, love you.." rather than just a "bye.."

Remember, Hugs, kisses, hand grabs are essential.. they are body languages..

7) Don't think, just say sorry..

It's not important who has mistaken and who should say sorry.
It's the relationship which is important.
So if you want your relation, keep your ego aside and say Sorry.
Mistakes are likely if you are young.

8) Don't be confidential.. say away your secrets..

It's nothing more irritating if you know your love has a habit of hiding things from you.
Always keep in mind that past can't be changed, but present and future can be.
So be committed and never lie.
Your bones will be rejoined but your broken trust will never be..

9) Physical love has its space..

If you want to remove the mask and unveil his / her true character, you should definitely share a bed for a night.
Sex is the only thing which bonds two persons physically and emotionally.
Also it will help you decide that what actually is between both of you.. is it Love ? or is it the Lust ?
Yes.. check it out before you tie the knot of marriage.. so you shall never regret.

10 ) Happiness is all you want..

If your love is giving you nothing else than tears, depression and embarrassment, it's wise to remove yourself from the trap.
May be you aren't loved, but used !

So Friends.. bookmark this page and help yourself by using these 10 rules of Love by which you will notice one day how your Love Rules !!

A Note by Sumiet.. :)

Hey don't just smile.. Share this among your groups..

Sorry..

Friends..
This is for those boys who have lost themselves for a non deserving girl..

I feel sorry for the time which I spent for you..
I feel sorry for the feelings which I shared with you..
I feel sorry for the words which I spoke to you..
I feel sorry for me cause I troubled myself for you..
I feel sorry for the strength which I lost for you..

I feel sorry for my thirst and hunger which I forgot for you..
I feel sorry for my friends who became enemies cause of you..
I feel sorry for others whom I did hurt for you..
I feel sorry for my parents when I lied them for you..
I feel sorry for my beauty which I messed for you..
I feel sorry for my God when I resembled him with you..
I feel sorry for my life when I thought you as my lady luck..
I feel sorry for my sleep which I always ignored for you..
I feel sorry for my peace which I left for you..
I feel sorry for that day when I met you..
I feel sorry for every those things which I kicked for you..

Boys.. One advice..

Love your profession.. don't love a girl..
Love your strength.. don't love a girl..
Love your beauty.. don't love a girl..
Love your studies.. don't love a girl..
Love your free time.. don't love a girl..
Love your arts and hobbies.. don't love a girl..
Love those small kids.. don't love a girl..
Love to eat food.. don't love a girl..
Love your style.. don't love a girl..
Love music and its lyrics.. don't love a girl..
Love your sister.. but don't love a girl..
Love your rules.. don't love a girl..
Love your sleep.. don't love a girl..
Love your dreams and make them true.. don't love a girl..
Love your loneliness.. don't love a girl..
Love your smile and its pics.. don't love a girl..
Love your earned money.. don't love a girl..
Love your own life.. don't love a girl..
Love your every that thing which is yours.. cause that girl is not going to die with you..
Love your God and the goodness.. and you shall never be "Sorry.."

Sumiet Talekar

Scorpio..

First time I've copy pasted other hand article on my blog.. but the reason behind this is that it reflects myself totally.

Also the first time I've realised how accurate the science of Astrology can be.

The person who knows me perfectly or who has seen me off clothes is the only  deserved one to read and understand this article.

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   Scorpios have an intense and mysterious gaze, presenting a calm exterior that masks deep sensitivity. 
2. They observe and analyse from a distance, gathering information to augment their powerful intuition. You may be able to deceive a Scorpio for a short time, but Scorpio people are adept at seeing into the heart of any matter. When a Scorpio senses your dishonesty, you may as well be dead to them. A Scorpio appreciates people who are authentic and honest.
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   Scorpios like to hear your stories instead of talking about themselves. 
4. Tell a Scorpio something about yourself and they will most likely remember it. In conversation, Scorpios are most fascinated by emotional truth, things that matter on the deepest levels. They despise small talk and shallow topics. Also avoid telling them everything all at once or you will lose their interest.
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   Scorpios are driven by a hunger for hidden truth and mystery.
6. Find out what interests them most and do some research so you can engage them in satisfying conversation. However, until you get to know a Scorpio more intimately, be sure not to ask questions that are too personal. Scorpios show their hidden selves only to those they trust and still may never reveal their whole self to you.
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   Relationships with Scorpios can be complex and difficult to understand, just like the person.
8. Scorpios tend to have only a few very intense friendships because they need for their friends to bond with them on the deepest and most intimate level. Flimsy and ephemeral friendships are of no interest to a Scorpio. A Scorpio demands, and gives, everything.
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   Scorpios thrive when you treat them with respect and kindness.
10. Give them 100 percent and they will return it with interest! For example, let's say your Scorpio friend is standing next to a mutual friend. You can hug that person quickly, but when you hug the Scorpio, hold them and squeeze them with great warmth. Scorpios are sensitive to the smallest gestures and will appreciate them even if they don't seem to show it.
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    Do not anger a Scorpio.
12.  If you wrong a Scorpio, they may eventually forgive you, after making you suffer, but they will NEVER forget. And betrayal will be answered with an unrivaled thirst for vengeance. There's a reason the symbol for this sign is the scorpion. The likelihood you’ll win in a fight with them is very low
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    Scorpios have a tendency to be quiet and withdrawn.
14.  It's not that they aren't interested in you. Scorpios tend to rely on their intuition and powers of observation rather than the unreliable testimony of others. If a Scorpio is willing to spend time with you then trust that they enjoy your company, even if they never say so.
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    Scorpios are very much in tune with their sexuality, but they tend to prefer meaningful relationships over frequent conquests.
16.  They are not afraid to talk about sex and you can tell them anything without shocking them.
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    Scorpios value anyone who isn't afraid of being themselves. 
18. Tell them your interests and be honest when they ask you questions.
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    When a Scorpio watches you and locks eyes with yours, they are giving you their full attention. 
20. There is nothing else going on in their world at that moment and they are listening with their entire being. When you spend time with them they expect the same level of attention so don't spend too much time on your phone.
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    If you are dating a Scorpio, keep in mind that what they truly desire is a meaningful and loving relationship.
22.  They long to connect on the deepest emotional, spiritual, and physical levels. A Scorpio must be courted until you have earned their trust.
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    Most Scorpios like dark colors such as black, red, blue and purple.
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    When you have things in common with a Scorpio, share them.
25.  Scorpios love to discuss shared interests.
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    Most Scorpios (not all) love to compete - and most of all, win.
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    Scorpios are good friends.
28.  Be loyal, treat them with love, respect, and selflessness and they will be devoted to you.
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    When a Scorpio loves you, it will shine in their eyes like a light.
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    What does a Scorpio truly want in a friend?
31.  They want close friends they can love and trust completely. Give them sincere compliments to show your respect and affection. Do things to show them that you care about them. If you give them a gift, it doesn't need to be expensive but make sure it is special and meaningful. If you want to win their heart, be honest at all times and don't play with their emotions. Scorpios are the most loyal people you will ever meet if they feel you are worthy of their loyalty and love. Once you've been part of their lives they will be with you forever...........

Now I've no regrets.. I'm a Scorpio :)Sumiet Talekar

Love List..

"Hey.. I think you never had any girlfriend.
You have never loved anybody.
That's why you are talking such.
Love has its own power.
True love never fails. And... blaah blaah blaah.."

He kept on his lecture and I was lost in my past.
He must had not realized that I was not actually hearing what he was saying.
How would I ?
I was now wandering in my lost life and lost loves..

Here I think to write down the list of Girls who came in my life and were called  as "Love" at a time..

You must be thinking that "Oh.. He is saying like he is supercool or a hero of an Indian movie.. 

List of girls.. Haaah.. "

No people.. it's not like that..
But it's my habit that I never keep things within me.
No matter how good or how bad that thing may be.. but I believe in sharing whatever it may be.
Cause this time will go.. this life will go..
My memories will end..
My name will be forgotten..
But yet there will be remaining something.

Something which I've written.. something which I've shared..
Something which I've learnt in my life.. and something which I've tried to say these people here..

Okay leaving the expanding here..
Following is the list..

1) TEJASVI ARYA  (1995 - 2001) Mumbai

Hmm.. it was the time of my childhood (I was born at 1990).

She was my classmate in my school.
I don't know why.. but she was the only girl those times who I started liking.
May be cause she was clever.. her handwriting was more beautiful than mine.. or she was always second and third ranker in our class while I was always first.

Only a thing I didn't liked at that time was her attitude.

I still remember the fragrance of her breath.
I didn't knew that she was my crush.. ( as we call nowadays ).

She was nowhere again in my life after I left the school in 2001.

2)  RESHMA GOTAWADE  (2008 - 2009) Rajapur

I was eighteen and you know what turn the life takes in this age.
I was growing young..
Started feeling hormonal forces.
Started feeling the thing called love and attraction.
Na na.. not before she came in my life..
I was living my spiritual life happily.
I had gained control on the six vices -lust, anger, greed, fear, love and ego.

But she ruined everything.

She started seducing me intentionally.
She started feeling for me too..
And here I was left in a worst baffled stage in my life.
She made me quit my spiritual life and herself got disappeared.

That's a long story.. and I've kept it still alive in the form of a book.
Title is "Vaara banun aali an vaadal karun geli.."
Which means "Came like wind and went like storm.."

3) Sonali Pawar  (2007) Rajapur

Taking her in my list in between cause I'll never forget that sweet kiss.
First and last it was..

4)  SANIEKA SHINDE  (2010 - 2011) Lonavala

Well she is not a girl.. but my baby.
She was hardly of three or four that time.
She came so close to me like she was my own baby.
She was the only girl and will be forever who taught me what  parental feelings and responsibilities are.

Ahh.. but she was seized from me after the scandal.
Scandal of Lonavala..
Oh.. Wondering ?
Anyways.. but it's also a long story to tell here.

5)  PREETI KARAMBELKAR  (2011) Ratnagiri

We met on Facebook and it was my single sided love.
I've written two articles like "Once upon a time on Facebook" and "Love via Facebook."
Go to those articles if you are so curious ;-)

Well that affair ended soon.. and I was hurt too badly.. 

6)  MANASI SHAH (2012 -2013) Mumbai

She is the queen of my list and my life.
She is the only and only girl who I'll never forget.
Now I'll never love anybody as I loved her.

She was my class mate like Tejasvi.

She is from good family and cultural background.

She came.. she proposed.. she loved..
She dragged me completely in the dark fantasy of love and lust.

We shared everything of ours.
I shared my heart, my past, my tears and everything that existed as mine..

But alas.. she left me one day.

She did this for her parents.. ( now I don't know the actual reason)

I was left in trauma.
My life took a big turn here.

Yes it's a long long story of which my blog's major space consists of.

7) MRUNALI SAWAI  (2013) Mumbai

I sent an interest to her on Shaadi.com
She accepted.
I used to call her Manu..
Yes.. but she was never my Manu.
She ended her role soon.

8) SWATI DUNDKAR  (2013) Ratnagiri

Yeah.. She too met via Shaadi.com
She accepted and we started chatting and talking afterwards.
But she soon got irritated when I started comparing her with my Manu.. Manasi Shah.

She confessed.. she said me that she loves me a lot.
My voice, my nature, she loved many things.

But one day requested me to change myself and forget my past, Manu.
Here I refused and she soon left me forever.

Now she is married.

9) SUMITA SIKKA  (2013 - 2014) New Mumbai and now in Rajapur

There is something special about this girl.
Not only our names did match.. but also our visual dreams matched perfectly.

I met her via Facebook and soon fell for her.
I confessed that I love her and first I got rejection.

But later on she too said that she started feeling for me.

Again here I started my comparison.
And soon she too was irritated and left me alone.

10) DIVYA NAGPAL  (2014) Delhi

This is Ajab Gajab love.
She lived in Delhi and I was in Ratnagiri.
We met via Yahoo groups.

Soon we started chatting on What's App messenger.
She was married and was 15 years more elder than me.
Had a rich Hubby and a beautiful daughter, Mania.

I said her my depression and my lost love.
She got mixed in my feelings and soon we confessed each other that we loved.
I think she was not happy in her married life.

I wrote a poem for her which she liked the most.

(Have a look.. it is here on my blog)

But one day I blocked her completely when she declined to marry me.
I understood that I'm going out of my track and breaking the rules.
She also never cared to look at me.
(Damn love nowadays people do.)

11) SHREYA LELE  (2014 - present) Ratnagiri

We met each other when I was in my career's initial stage.
I was in a Shop and she was in a hospital front of that shop.
The story went long with several breakups and patch-ups.
I wrote many articles for her which were mainly in Marathi.

She became the only one who proved her love and ran away from her home to marry me.
After that, our married life continued.

"Hey dude.. are you listening what am I saying ?
Love is eternal..
It's just that you don't understand it....."

I got shook from my daydream and saw my friend still on his lecture.

I chuckled within my cheeks.
And I thought to show him my "Love list..."   ;-)

(Shhh... chup ha.. ab aap mat batana kisiko... ;-D )

- Sumiet Talekar

Waqt..

Main pyaar karta tha usse..
Woh sundar nahi thi.. par uska dil achha tha..
Shayad dil bhi achha nahi tha.. par acting achhi kar leti thi..
Uske dil ko kabhi takleef nahi hui.. par roti achhi thi..
Woh rone lag jaati toh mere aankhon main aasoon aa jaate..
Lekin phir bhi maine use khoob rulaya..
Kya karta.. woh mujh se chhoti chhoti baato ke liye bhi jhooth bola karti thi.
Saha nahi jata tha mujhse.. 

Jis ko maine apna sab kuchh de diya.. Jis se sab kuchh share kiya.. wahi mujhe paraya samajh ke mujh se apni dil ki baat chhupati..

Sapne bahot dikhaaye usne mujhe..
Lagta hai woh hypnotism main maahir thi..
Dekh na saka main uske sapno ke pichhe chupe hue ek sacchhaai ko..
Puri tarah fas gaya tha main uske pyaar main.. usne jaal hi jo aisa bichhaya tha..

Ant main jab Maine jana ke usne mera sirf istemaal kiya.. bahot takleef hui mujhe..

Tod diye sab rishte usne mere saath.
Sharam aane lagi use jab logo ko maaloom hua ke main uska boyfriend hoon..
Kya karti woh bhi.. Salman Khan jo nahi tha main.
Na height thi na body.. Na paisa na parivaar..
Kuchh nahi tha mere paas sivaay uske..
Par woh bhi ab jaa chuki thi..
Uska jo ex tha.. woh ab uske zindagi main fir se aa gaya tha..

Ab uski zindagi main mera role khatam ho gaya tha..

Par main aaj khush hoon.. mujhe khushi hai ke main kisi ke kaam to aaya..

Nafrat main ya pyaar main.. Lekin mera Naam toh aaya..!

Ab shaant ho gaya hoon.. Azad ho chuka hoon..
Ab koi mujhe rula nahi sakta.. Koi dil dhadka nahi sakta..
Aaj jo main apne pairo pe khada hoon bas usi ke badaulat.
Na woh mujhe chhod ke jaati.. na main maut ka samna karta.. na main jeena sikh pata..
Aaj na use khone ka dar.. Na use paane khi khwaaish hai..

Mujhe ek galatfaimi thi.. ke agar humara pyaar saccha ho to duniya ki kaunsi bhi shakti hume juda nahi kar sakti..
Kabhi nahi socha ke uske jaisi mujhe beintehaan pyaar karne waali mere aasoo par has uthegi..
Mujhe laga pyar amar hota hai.. atoot hota hai..
Lekin aaj Maine jana.. yeh pyaar lachaar hai..
Duniya jhukti hai.. Paise ke aage..
Pyar bhi bikta hai bazaar main.
Koi kisi ka nahi hota.. Bas yeh samay sab ko baandh kar rakhta hai..

Yeh kaal chakra hai.. ghumta rehta hai..
Kal jo diya tha woh aaj milne wala hai..
Aaj jo kar raha hoon woh kal dikhne wala hai..

Aaj uska waqt hai.. Kal mera bhi aayega..
Aaj main akela hoon.. Kal koi mil jaayega..
Waqt ke haathon hai sab..
Aaj woh rula gayi mujhe.. Kal use rulaane wala bhi aayega..

- Sumiet Talekar